So I’m going to be honest, not many people will take me serious when I say that I often suffer from body issues. If you return to a small frame after having … Continue reading Honest Mom Series: I am allowed to feel this way…
Fall is probably my favorite Season. Not only is Fall a great time to dress in cozy fashionable sweaters, the temperature is still comfortable enough to go outside. We kicked … Continue reading Me and My kiddos are kicking off the Fall…
If you are like me, picking a preschool for my son was not easy. Especially transitioning from a private home Provider who cared for him since he was eight months. … Continue reading Jeremey goes to Preschool
Good Morning, There is no Blog post today! I am attaching my Fall/ Autumn Edition Newsletter for you to check out. Read it, download it and share it. Let me … Continue reading HAPPY FALL EVERYONE
You want to succeed. You want to do better, but you are unsure how… Well, you are a brand! You represent yourself! If you do not make yourself look good, … Continue reading Moms, I am an advocate for stepping up your professional brand.
They say a child shall lead the way. My children always bring a different perspective to my daily thoughts. How they look at the world is so innocent and so … Continue reading My baby boy changed my perspective. Here is how.
Aside, from having someone to help you do stuff or having someone to spend time with. It is important that your children can witness a healthy relationship. A relationship with … Continue reading Moms, having a healthy romantic relationship is great.
My baby is almost 12 and I can’t believe it. Where the hell is the time going and can someone slow it down, just a little? I am thrilled to see … Continue reading My Tweenager…
The man you love does not have children and desires to start a family but… You are unsure if you want anymore. That is a huge issue for single parents … Continue reading Compromise or Keep it Moving?
Nobody understands parenthood until they are a parent. All of the demands from not only society, but the internal demands we place on ourselves. We have to be the best. We … Continue reading You’re Exhausted, Own It!
No Blog would ever be complete without paying homage to a great mom. My mom is the epitome of a great mom. It is quite amazing that just when she … Continue reading Phenomenal Mom
I’m writing this from my bed. It’s crazy how a few weeks ago I was perfectly fine and today I feel like I’m fighting for my life. I was diagnosed … Continue reading Lessons of Life
Being a career mom can feel rewarding. My children take pride in saying my mommy works here and she does this for a living. I have always wanted to be … Continue reading Working Moms & Guilt…
“Go Jr, Go. Run to the base. No that way. No that way. Yayyy!!” That was the words that you heard out of my month every Tuesday and Thursday all … Continue reading Mommy Life: “Go Jr, Go!”
Yes God, it is that time again! I know parents across the world are celebrating that their refrigerator will now go back to being the same. Besides from being happy … Continue reading Back To School Tips For The Busy Mama
I recently made a vow that I did not want to date again until I accomplished all of my personal goals. I truly feel like every time I come close to accomplishing a huge … Continue reading Love Again?
Being a single parent has many challenges, but so does co-parenting. Co-parenting takes a large amount of maturity on both ends. It takes more teamwork than some parents actually want to engage … Continue reading 5 WAYS TO AVOID CO-PARENTING DRAMA
We have all become a bunch of Peeping Toms these days. It is normal for an average person to scroll down their Instagram before they wash their own butt. Matter … Continue reading Sis, I’m Good, We’re Good…
Harsh judgement came off the tongues from mostly moms. I asked a group of moms what they thought about Stripper Moms. I got a few eye rolls. I was surprised … Continue reading I talked to A Mom Exotic Dancer…
I know this beautiful mom personally, but I never knew she was struggling with anxiety. It is funny how we know people by face, but we do not know their … Continue reading #MOMGOALS with Tahnee Cole: Chynita Kirkman
As I type this post I am shaking… I am not a scary person. I trust my abilities and I have faith in myself. I like to think of myself as … Continue reading A Different Approach
Every so often, I will dedicate a post to a significant professional mom who is setting and smashing goals. I decided to jumpstart this week off with me. I am Tahnee Cole, the founder and blogger … Continue reading #MOMGOALS with Tahnee Cole
I was romantically involved with a man who questioned would I ever be satisfied. He would joke about my lack of contentment. Saying that no matter what goals I smashed, … Continue reading Tahnee’s Thoughts: Satisfied?
Dear Tahnee, I want to apologize to you for ever doubting you. I want to say sorry for abusing your body. I apologize for the part I played, helping you engage … Continue reading A Birthday Letter to Me…
I know how it feels to feel overwhelmed, distressed, depressed and confused. Where the hell is my happily ever after? My Prince Charming? Where is my good Karma? It seems … Continue reading THE GET UP
If you follow me on Instagram at blackpumpspinkslippers you will see that I post #MomConfessions and #MomGoals daily on my page. While #MomConfessions are humorous little nuggets of hidden mom … Continue reading #GOALS
I am not afraid of winning or losing anymore. Probably because nine times out of ten I am winning, and the things that are gone are no longer beneficial to me. I … Continue reading Millennial Moms Think Different
I use to tell myself I am a Perfectionist. However, I realized that was just an excuse when I was not progressing. It had to be perfect before I presented … Continue reading Perfectionist or Procrastinator?
The “Mommy Industry” or should I say the “Millennial Mommy Industry” has done great things for moms all over the globe. We are taught how to look perfect on Instagram … Continue reading MOMS AND ANXIETY
I felt extremely overwhelmed. It seemed like disappointment on top of disappointment. How in the hell did I make that mistake? I had been working on this project all week. … Continue reading Mom-ing After All That…
My son is 3 today! I am so grateful to be his mom. He came into my life and gave me the passion to follow my dreams in a totally … Continue reading Happy Birthday!!!
A lot of moms don’t want to talk about this. Either it is too cliché or too touchy. The demands on the mom who wants to have a successful career … Continue reading Motherhood or Success?
“Heaven, we don’t have time today.” I said as I pointed to either toast or a Pop-tart. My morning had started off crazy already. My alarm clock was on mute and … Continue reading “It’s ok, Mama”
I have never been the type of person to give up. However, my ambition, perseverance, and desire to be successful has increased. I attribute that to my children. They are … Continue reading HAPPY MOTHER’S DAY!
“Some says the ex, makes the sex, spec-tac-ular…” The words of the late Great Notorious BIG always comes to mind when I think of having sex with an ex. It … Continue reading NO SEX WITH THE EX
Yeah don’t let those sweet faces fool you. Those two. Yeah my two. “Jeremey put that down right now!” “Heaven don’t get an attitude!” “Clean your room!” “No!” “No you … Continue reading THE TWO’s
Sometimes there is a big funky elephant in the room. Instead of ignoring him, it is better to wash him down or kick his ass out. I am a pretty … Continue reading WORK FRIENDS
The fresh aroma of Spring flowers is so refreshing. My children and I are dressed in mint green, white and lavender attire for our seasonal family pictures. This natural shot says it all! My … Continue reading THIS IS SO US… (Nothing perfect about this pic) LOL
I like the sound of it…Millennial Mom! Sounds real new age and savvy. Well that is what they call me. I am a mom born in the early 80’s raising children … Continue reading Millennial Moms are Creating Entrepreneurs
So I was speaking to a mom the other day, a new mom who has never worked in an office. She worked in retail and recently at a hair care … Continue reading BUSINESS PROFESSIONAL STYLED MAMA?
HAPPY NEW YEAR EVERYONE! I have dropped off copies of my Seasonal Newsletter at local coffee shops, libraries, doctor offices and many places that people may want to look at … Continue reading IN THE NEWS
HAPPY NEW YEAR! Hello to all my Readers!!! If you are reading this then it means you made it to 2018. Last year, I decided to come up with a … Continue reading HAPPY NEW MOM YEAR!
Merry Christmas!!! Today is the last day of Blogmas and I feel pretty good. I truly enjoyed myself this Holiday season. I have been off with my children almost a … Continue reading 12 Days of Blogmas Day 12: Merry Christmas
Hey everyone it is Christmas Eve! Time to make Christmas cookies, finish wrapping gifts, drink hot cocoa, and get ready for Santa. I spoke to Santa and he told me … Continue reading 12 Days of Blogmas Day 11: Christmas Eve
My blog of the day will be a list of things I do with my kids for Christmas. I tried to keep the list short, but so far we have done everything except … Continue reading 12 Days of Blogmas Day 9: Fun times for Christmas!
As a busy mom, I know how it feels to be exhausted and overwhelmed around the Holidays. Honestly, I have learned that the best thing to do is get help. … Continue reading 12 Days of Blogmas Day 8: Help Around the Holidays
I did not have much to say today besides the fact that I adore my children. They fight like siblings do, but they are so close. Despite their almost 7 … Continue reading 12 Days of Blogmas Day 7: Funny Photo of the Day