Remember the bitter baby mama, yeah that’s what you called her. You first saw her in the grocery store, right? She was standing there yelling at her kids, using all … Continue reading The Bitter Baby Mama…
Dealing with post relationship trauma is not easy. Especially, when a child or children are involved. However, you can still manage to have a productive and healthy co-parenting relationship and … Continue reading BABY MAMA SERIES: 7 HABITS TO HEAL
Her eyes were red as my Ruby Woo lipstick. She got in the car and didn’t even speak. I didn’t take it personal though. I knew why she was angry … Continue reading You’re a Bitter Baby Mama, Own it!
Let me tell you the double standard… I was talking to some coworkers about a story on the news. A dad was so stressed out that he came home killed … Continue reading BABY MAMA SERIES: MENTAL HEALTH
Lately, I have been entertaining the thought of having a final baby. Only because I have started to really consider a friendship turned into a relationship and possibly marriage is … Continue reading Pregnant after 30…
Hey Mamas, I started therapy a year ago. In secret. I didn’t want my family to judge me. I didn’t grow up on therapy, I grew up on prayer. To … Continue reading F*ck him, how is that for therapy? #parentingwithanincarceratedparent
A mom friend and I had a discussion about moms vs the workplace… We both agreed that we realized how difficult working mom life can be once our children hit … Continue reading They only see you leave early… #WORKINGMOMCHALLENGES
Hello, I am committed to working on all the projects that will keep my mom tribe engaged and encouraged. Every season I will be uploading a seasonal newsletter. My last … Continue reading HAPPY HOLIDAYS, HAPPY NEW YEAR AND HAPPY WINTER! (WINTER NEWSLETTER ENCLOSED)
If you are looking for last minute ideas for a tween girl like mine, here are 10 gifts she will probably love. This is not all tweens, but girls who … Continue reading Last Minute Gift Ideas for a Tween Like Mine…
Tis the Season to be jolly, busy AF, overwhelmed, happy, depressed, broke, etc… Listen Mamas, life does NOT have to be the exact same, year after year. You have to find … Continue reading Beating the Busy Mom Blues During the Holidays!
Usually, I never feel out of place because I don’t compare myself to others. However, I felt really weird after having a conversation with a group of moms at our … Continue reading Being the only black working mom…
The picture of my son in 2018 wearing his Superman costume inspired this post. He looks so strong, confident and majestic. He truly believes that he can do anything. Which … Continue reading Teaching my son there is a Black Superman, he is.
Hey, I’m a black mom and I’m extra AF (as f*ck), if you aren’t familiar with the acronym. LOL Excuse my French, but there is no better way to describe my … Continue reading “If you leave that damn coat at school, don’t come home!”
Everything is picture perfect now. You get on social media and the portrayal of a perfect life is the new norm. The influencers at times, can influence people to live a … Continue reading Let me be candid, and keep it funky about co-parenting.
There is such a strong stigma that comes with being a mom. So many expectations, so many requirements. Most of the time, we feel damned if we do, damned if … Continue reading And Yes, I’m a Mom…
Every mom and dad needs a Village. They say it takes a village to raise a child. There will come a point when you can no longer do everything yourself. … Continue reading Surviving the Village…
So I’m going to be honest, not many people will take me serious when I say that I often suffer from body issues. If you return to a small frame after having … Continue reading Honest Mom Series: I am allowed to feel this way…
Fall is probably my favorite Season. Not only is Fall a great time to dress in cozy fashionable sweaters, the temperature is still comfortable enough to go outside. We kicked … Continue reading Me and My kiddos are kicking off the Fall…
If you are like me, picking a preschool for my son was not easy. Especially transitioning from a private home Provider who cared for him since he was eight months. … Continue reading Jeremey goes to Preschool
Good Morning, There is no Blog post today! I am attaching my Fall/ Autumn Edition Newsletter for you to check out. Read it, download it and share it. Let me … Continue reading HAPPY FALL EVERYONE
You want to succeed. You want to do better, but you are unsure how… Well, you are a brand! You represent yourself! If you do not make yourself look good, … Continue reading Moms, I am an advocate for stepping up your professional brand.
They say a child shall lead the way. My children always bring a different perspective to my daily thoughts. How they look at the world is so innocent and so … Continue reading My baby boy changed my perspective. Here is how.
Aside, from having someone to help you do stuff or having someone to spend time with. It is important that your children can witness a healthy relationship. A relationship with … Continue reading Moms, having a healthy romantic relationship is great.
My baby is almost 12 and I can’t believe it. Where the hell is the time going and can someone slow it down, just a little? I am thrilled to see … Continue reading My Tweenager…
The man you love does not have children and desires to start a family but… You are unsure if you want anymore. That is a huge issue for single parents … Continue reading Compromise or Keep it Moving?
Nobody understands parenthood until they are a parent. All of the demands from not only society, but the internal demands we place on ourselves. We have to be the best. We … Continue reading You’re Exhausted, Own It!
No Blog would ever be complete without paying homage to a great mom. My mom is the epitome of a great mom. It is quite amazing that just when she … Continue reading Phenomenal Mom
I’m writing this from my bed. It’s crazy how a few weeks ago I was perfectly fine and today I feel like I’m fighting for my life. I was diagnosed … Continue reading Lessons of Life
Being a career mom can feel rewarding. My children take pride in saying my mommy works here and she does this for a living. I have always wanted to be … Continue reading Working Moms & Guilt…
“Go Jr, Go. Run to the base. No that way. No that way. Yayyy!!” That was the words that you heard out of my month every Tuesday and Thursday all … Continue reading Mommy Life: “Go Jr, Go!”
Yes God, it is that time again! I know parents across the world are celebrating that their refrigerator will now go back to being the same. Besides from being happy … Continue reading Back To School Tips For The Busy Mama
I recently made a vow that I did not want to date again until I accomplished all of my personal goals. I truly feel like every time I come close to accomplishing a huge … Continue reading Love Again?
Being a single parent has many challenges, but so does co-parenting. Co-parenting takes a large amount of maturity on both ends. It takes more teamwork than some parents actually want to engage … Continue reading 5 WAYS TO AVOID CO-PARENTING DRAMA
We have all become a bunch of Peeping Toms these days. It is normal for an average person to scroll down their Instagram before they wash their own butt. Matter … Continue reading Sis, I’m Good, We’re Good…
Harsh judgement came off the tongues from mostly moms. I asked a group of moms what they thought about Stripper Moms. I got a few eye rolls. I was surprised … Continue reading I talked to A Mom Exotic Dancer…
I know this beautiful mom personally, but I never knew she was struggling with anxiety. It is funny how we know people by face, but we do not know their … Continue reading #MOMGOALS with Tahnee Cole: Chynita Kirkman
As I type this post I am shaking… I am not a scary person. I trust my abilities and I have faith in myself. I like to think of myself … Continue reading A Different Approach
Every so often, I will dedicate a post to a significant professional mom who is setting and smashing goals. I decided to jumpstart this week off with me. I am Tahnee Cole, the founder and blogger … Continue reading #MOMGOALS with Tahnee Cole
I was romantically involved with a man who questioned would I ever be satisfied. He would joke about my lack of contentment. Saying that no matter what goals I smashed, … Continue reading Tahnee’s Thoughts: Satisfied?
Dear Tahnee, I want to apologize to you for ever doubting you. I want to say sorry for abusing your body. I apologize for the part I played, helping you engage … Continue reading A Birthday Letter to Me…
I know how it feels to feel overwhelmed, distressed, depressed and confused. Where the hell is my happily ever after? My Prince Charming? Where is my good Karma? It seems … Continue reading THE GET UP
If you follow me on Instagram at blackpumpspinkslippers you will see that I post #MomConfessions and #MomGoals daily on my page. While #MomConfessions are humorous little nuggets of hidden mom … Continue reading #GOALS
I am not afraid of winning or losing anymore. Probably because nine times out of ten I am winning, and the things that are gone are no longer beneficial to me. I … Continue reading Millennial Moms Think Different
I use to tell myself I am a Perfectionist. However, I realized that was just an excuse when I was not progressing. It had to be perfect before I presented … Continue reading Perfectionist or Procrastinator?
The “Mommy Industry” or should I say the “Millennial Mommy Industry” has done great things for moms all over the globe. We are taught how to look perfect on Instagram … Continue reading MOMS AND ANXIETY
I felt extremely overwhelmed. It seemed like disappointment on top of disappointment. How in the hell did I make that mistake? I had been working on this project all week. … Continue reading Mom-ing After All That…
My son is 3 today! I am so grateful to be his mom. He came into my life and gave me the passion to follow my dreams in a totally … Continue reading Happy Birthday!!!
A lot of moms don’t want to talk about this. Either it is too cliché or too touchy. The demands on the mom who wants to have a successful career … Continue reading Motherhood or Success?