THE BLOG

Stupid Sh*t People Say to Career Moms

A lot of people look at the career mom as a Super- heroine. A lot of people make me laugh with their misconceptions and small mindedness. ` Many women are working outside of the home nowadays and maintaining lucrative careers. Women are breadwinners and for many that is admirable. Women of today are being praised … Continue reading Stupid Sh*t People Say to Career Moms

A Preteen, A Preschooler, A Puppy & A Pandemic

"Have a kid" they said... "Get a puppy" they said... I'm joking!  I love my little family, but I will say the family dynamic has changed since we added our little PUPPY Apollo to our clan. Yes, he is a great little addition. All sweet and cuddly, but he Demands ATTENTION! I forgot how much … Continue reading A Preteen, A Preschooler, A Puppy & A Pandemic

PEACE, LOVE & MOTHERHOOD

As I sit here and sip my tea, I think about what so many Mommy Bloggers contribute to my life. I am so inspired by this era of women. I am so proud of especially black moms, who are branching out and sharing their unique motherhood journey. Whenever I go to THE MOM IN ME … Continue reading PEACE, LOVE & MOTHERHOOD

The Bitter Baby Mama…

Remember the bitter baby mama, yeah that’s what you called her. You first saw her in the grocery store, right? She was standing there yelling at her kids, using all types of profanity. “Don’t touch a motha…” Is how she started her first sentence. Telling her three kids to keep their hands to themselves. She … Continue reading The Bitter Baby Mama…

BABY MAMA SERIES: 7 HABITS TO HEAL

Dealing with post relationship trauma is not easy. Especially, when a child or children are involved. However, you can still manage to have a productive and healthy co-parenting relationship and happy life. On a road to recovery there are things that you must do on a consistent basis to make sure that you are being … Continue reading BABY MAMA SERIES: 7 HABITS TO HEAL

THE “BABY MAMA” SERIES: MENTAL HEALTH

Let me tell you the double standard... I was talking to some coworkers about a story on the news. A dad was so stressed out that he came home killed his children and himself. As we discussed how sad it was a few of my co-workers started bashing the mother. What type of mom let … Continue reading THE “BABY MAMA” SERIES: MENTAL HEALTH

Pregnant after 30…

Lately, I have been entertaining the thought of having a final baby. Only because I have started to really consider a friendship turned into a relationship and possibly marriage is the next discussion. But, the thought of having a baby after 30 is scary to me, especially since I am 34.. How could I not … Continue reading Pregnant after 30…

F*ck him, how is that for therapy? #parentingwithanincarceratedparent

Hey Mamas, I started therapy a year ago. In secret. I didn’t want my family to judge me. I didn’t grow up on therapy, I grew up on prayer. To be honest, it was surface level at first. I didn’t truly want to step out of my comfort zone because, “I’m strong”. As a matter … Continue reading F*ck him, how is that for therapy? #parentingwithanincarceratedparent