Tahnee’s Thoughts: My Success

I was never a girl who planned a wedding… Yet, I have always dreamed of being successful. Apparently, marriage was not my model for success. I think marriage can be a beautiful union if the interests are genuine and the love is mutual. However, the epitome of success to me is someone being their best self. Success to…

HAPPY HALLOWEEN

I thought I would start Halloween off with a funny story. So my kids love dressing alike for Halloween.  No, I didn’t force them. They decided after looking at Jeremey’s poster in his room that they would be Superman and Wonder Woman. So of course, I went to Halloween City and found them matching outfits….

THE GET UP

I know how it feels to feel overwhelmed, distressed, depressed and confused. Where the hell is my happily ever after? My Prince Charming?  Where is my good Karma? It seems like I have done good by folk and I can’t even find a good companion to save my life. All the hours I wasted listening…

You don’t have to… it’s ok

They tell us to fake it until we make it. I say that it is time for us to be honest and transparent about how we feel. It is the only way that we can tackle and resolve our issues. I am done covering my wounds instead of properly healing them. I have spent years…

#GOALS

If you follow me on Instagram at blackpumpspinkslippers you will see that I post #MomConfessions and #MomGoals daily on my page. While #MomConfessions are humorous little nuggets of hidden mom truths. #MomGoals are my desires to help my children attain success and happiness. One of my #MomGoals is to teach my children that generational curses is just…

Millennial Moms Think Different

I am not afraid of winning or losing anymore. Probably because nine times out of ten I am winning, and the things that are gone are no longer beneficial to me. I have replaced them with better. My mind has changed and my energy has changed. I represent the Millennial Mom who teaches her children a totally…

THANK YOU SUPPORTERS & HAPPY FALL

I LOVE THE FALL SEASON AND I LOVE ALL MY SUPPORTERS! I don’t take anything for granted. Whether it is one person reading or thirty. Blogging takes time and patience. I adore  all of you who read my post, comment and email me personally. Thank you and you are appreciated! 🙂

Perfectionist or Procrastinator?

I use to tell myself I am a Perfectionist. However, I realized that was just an excuse when I was not progressing. It had to be perfect before I presented it. One more month. One more course. One more detail. One more proofread. The months would roll around and then I would watch someone launch my idea….

MOMS AND ANXIETY

The “Mommy Industry” or should I say the “Millennial Mommy Industry” has done great things for moms all over the globe. We are taught how to look perfect on Instagram with the glamorous makeup tutorials. The perfect moms get together and make videos on how to get our bodies to snap back seconds after labor (even those…

Mom-ing After All That…

I felt extremely overwhelmed. It seemed like disappointment on top of disappointment. How in the hell did I make that mistake? I had been working on this project all week. I had ran the numbers and even looked at my goal board on my cubicle wall. It was great at reminding me of everything I…