Teaching my son there is a Black Superman, he is.

The picture of my son in 2018 wearing his Superman costume inspired this post. He looks so strong, confident and majestic. He truly believes that he can do anything. Which is why daily, I find myself having to convince him not to jump down the flight of stairs. But, I don't want that confidence to disappear. … Continue reading Teaching my son there is a Black Superman, he is.

“If you leave that damn coat at school, don’t come home!”

Hey, I'm a black mom and I'm extra AF (as f*ck), if you aren't familiar with the acronym. LOL Excuse my French, but there is no better way to describe my parenting style when it comes to trying to prove a point to my kids. When my kids leave the house during the Fall and Winter … Continue reading “If you leave that damn coat at school, don’t come home!”

Let me be candid, and keep it funky about co-parenting.

Everything is picture perfect now. You get on social media and the portrayal of a perfect life is the new norm. The influencers at times, can influence people to live a lie or contribute to insecurities. Insecurities about fantasies. A spotless home (usually a mansion), a perfect faithful husband, perfect well-manner kids and my favorite: Perfect … Continue reading Let me be candid, and keep it funky about co-parenting.

2 Kids, 1 Job and No Man…

April 3, 2017,  felt like a regular Monday. Well actually it didn't, I was supposed to be going in late to work due to a dentist appointment. I couldn't help but notice the constant buzzing of my phone while I was getting dressed.  My co-worker was calling me. Matter of fact, she had called me few times which was unusual … Continue reading 2 Kids, 1 Job and No Man…

Tahnee’s Thoughts: Satisfied?

I was romantically involved with a man who questioned would I ever be satisfied.   He would joke about my lack of contentment. Saying that no matter what goals I smashed, or new endeavors I engaged in I wanted more. Leading him to believe that I will also grow tired of our relationship. He made these … Continue reading Tahnee’s Thoughts: Satisfied?

A Birthday Letter to Me…

Dear Tahnee, I want to apologize to you for ever doubting you. I want to say sorry for abusing your body. I apologize for the part I played, helping you engage in mindless intimate connections to recover from pain from your ex (exes). I want to say sorry for the days I starved you, over-working you for a company who could … Continue reading A Birthday Letter to Me…

BUSINESS PROFESSIONAL STYLED MAMA?

So I was speaking to a mom the other day, a new mom who has never worked in an office.  She worked in retail and recently at a hair care supply store. She asked me exactly what Business Professional was... I gave her the side eye...    Well only because I had never met anyone who NEVER … Continue reading BUSINESS PROFESSIONAL STYLED MAMA?