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By blackpumpspinkslippers Posted on Feb 5, 2020February 5, 2020

F*ck him, how is that for therapy? #parentingwithanincarceratedparent

Hey Mamas, I started therapy a year ago. In secret. I didn’t want my family to judge me. I didn’t grow up on therapy, I grew up on prayer. To … Continue reading F*ck him, how is that for therapy? #parentingwithanincarceratedparent

Categories: UncategorizedTags: dad, incarceratedparent, jail, mom, motherhood, parenting, therapy

By blackpumpspinkslippers Posted on Dec 2, 2019December 1, 2019

Beating the Busy Mom Blues During the Holidays!

Tis the Season to be jolly, busy AF, overwhelmed, happy, depressed, broke, etc… Listen Mamas, life does NOT have to be the exact same, year after year. You have to find … Continue reading Beating the Busy Mom Blues During the Holidays!

Categories: UncategorizedTags: #blogger, christmas, family, holiday, love, parenting, singlemoms

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The deterioration in our communities is due to the lack of support, lack of resources and the lack of acknowledging that we all play a vital role in uplifting each other up. When one person falls it will be a domino effect. It may not happen right away, but it will. Trust me. We are apart of a community. We are our brothers and sisters keeper. Regardless, if we want to admit that or not. There will be a time when you need to rely on others for support, if it hasn't happen yet, just wait. _______________________________________ I spent this entire week focusing on the "Baby Mama". A woman who is often misunderstood and judged unfairly. However, this woman should be supported because she plays a major role in shaping and raising our future. And if done incorrectly and totally alone, where will our future be? _______________________________________ This lasts post is about watching your judgements, respecting others stories, and understanding that we all have a story. Life can start one way and turn another with a blink of an eye. So stay humble and stay connected. Enjoy and don't forget to follow the blog!!

Hey Mama Tribe, I don’t know about you moms but neither one of my babies came with manuals. They did come with their own personalities. The personalities that would bring me joy and frustration. ______________________________________ My practice of being a mom came from my baby doll Katelynn. I took Katelynn everywhere. I dressed her in fancy doll clothes. I would even drop her off to my moms bedroom so I could run errands on my big wheel. My mom gave into this little lifestyle and would buy me doll furniture and more doll clothes for Katelynn. She would even call Katelynn her grand baby. Then Katelyn later turned into Heaven, but the only difference between with Heaven is... I could NOT just place her in the closet when I wanted to ride my bike. Katekyn didn’t cry. HEAVEN DID! Katekyn didn’t do nearly as much as Heaven did. _______________________________________ Moral of the story I had to learn. I love Heaven so I am willing to put in the time. I later had my son and had to adjust to being a mom of two, I still am balancing. I am also learning Jeremey Jr too. _______________________________________ My children are constantly growing and going through endless phases. I will be learning and loving them until my last heartbeat! ❤️💪🏾 . . . #momwhomotivates #endlesslove #blackpumpspinkslippers #careermom #workingmom #teammamas #babymamaweek #clevelandmom #clevelandblogger #midwestblogger #blogging #blogger

So today there will be an additional day added for blog post because I was having some difficulties with my website. Unfortunately with the way my working mommy life is set up I was too busy to correct it. _______________________________________ We are still on the “baby mama “ series and today I’m talking about healing. So all day in my stories check out some healing tips and techniques. Hit the link in my bio for more _______________________________________ Don’t forget to add your input!!! Happy Friday!!! . . . #babymama #momblogger #blackpumpspinkslippers #momlife #selfcare #mentalhealth #healing #midwestmom #midwestblogger #clevelandmom #clevelandblogger

STORYTIME I had to be mindful who I was representing. I had to be mindful of my representative. I had to be mindful about my representation. ______________________________________ My kids watch every single thing I do. I often live by the do as I say and not as I do method of parenting. I’m the adult. I make the rules! However, my kids are little versions of me. _______________________________________ I ran into an issue today, I was about to lose my cool and when I turned around both of my kids were looking at me. 👀👀 _______________________________________ I remember my daughter a few years ago complimenting me. She said no matter what I always remained the bigger person. Well lately, that has not been who I have been modeling. _______________________________________ In all honesty, I have been giving into this whole ‘petty epidemic’ , not intentionally but if somebody does something to me... Well, you know the rest. _______________________________________ I would often ask myself, “why do I have to be the bigger person all the time. I need to treat folks how they treat me.” However, I constantly preach to my kids about taking the higher road and to be their best self even when I’m not around. _______________________________________ Sometimes, it’s hard to admit you are not being who you truly want to be. It hurts that you have to restart when you thought you had grown from that dark place, but I’m not discouraged. _______________________________________ Growing is painful. Admitting is painful. Life is a continuous journey of learning, love and wisdom.

Call it petty Call it lies Call it what you want Tahnee calls it protecting her energy. _______________________________________ Some off days are reserved for connecting with people. Some is for getting stuff done. Some is for resting. _______________________________________ I woke up feeling horrible and my body needed to relax. So I took time off from work and got so much needed rest. That midday nap felt good and I will be doing that more often. _______________________________________ I give so much of myself but Tahnee has to take care of herself. If I don’t I can’t pour into my babies, my family or my tribe!!! . . . #momlife #momblogger #zenmom #family #tuesday #momlife #love #daysoff #selfcare

This is what the fellas are saying ladies. They are saying that it is just too much. Maybe a quick late night tip is cool, but a full relationship is a no for them! _______________________________________ Issue 1 is a concern for me because I always look at different people in my life having different roles, not numbers. Obviously, my children are going to be nurtured and cared for on a different level, but that doesn’t mean I’m not capable of having a relationship. Or two me answering my child’s fathers call does me I still want him, it means we need to communicate about something. I remember a guy I was dating was angry my son’s father textingme late at night. I had to explain to him that he worked night shift and sleeps all day. So he would text me about stuff on his break. I would be sleep and then return his text in the morning. No funny stuff. I got his concern but his insecurities was not valid. _______________________________________ For there to be so many men feeling this way there are sure a lot of women with multiple baby daddies so I’m not so sure about this one... _______________________________________ What do you think about this? I want to hear from some men too?

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